Why do we try too hard?

That's right, us women try too hard sometimes. How is it that every time, or at least almost every time, we find a guy attractive we try too hard to get his attention? We pull out no stops to make them notice us. We pluck, shave, wax, tan, and even make ourselves over. But for what? How many times do we get their attention? I have more luck getting him to talk to me in my baggy sweats then I do in my best jeans and makeup. Can't he see I'm doing all that for him? Like I really want to spend an extra 45 minutes in the bathroom. I want to be comfortable!
Well if that's the way its going to be, no more trying, time to just see what happens.